O Death, Where is Thy Victory?

Death is painful. And it does hurt. But, I'm so grateful that it holds no victory for those of us who are believers in Jesus Christ. Sadness last for a moment, but joy lasts for all eternity. And with that, I'm weeping with my friend, Hannah Kipp, yet rejoicing with her and her joy in knowing that she will see her dad again. Death holds nothing over him or their family for that fact. He is no longer suffering or in pain and that in and of itself is a cause for rejoicing and celebrating. Yesterday, he experienced the inexpressible joy of coming into the presence of his Savior. O Death -- where is Thy victory?

Yet, my heart is still sad, knowing that my dear and precious friend is hurting. I can't imagine the pain and loneliness of losing a father. I feel so inadequate to be a friend right now. I don't know the words to say or how to comfort. I'm frustrated because I can't even give a shoulder for her to cry on. Houston is not a short drive from Cedarville. When the Mayes family lost their father, I could at least attend the funeral, visit their family in the waiting room of the hospital, and do fun activities (like skiing) with them once things had ended. With Hannah, all I can do is just talk to her over the phone and tell her over and over again how much I love her and how sorry I am. I am sorry. I'm sorry that she won't have a father to walk her down the aisle one of these days. I feel guilty that my dad will be able to have that honor of doing that for me.

I don't know. Life doesn't make sense. Yet in the same breath I say: God is good. All the time. In every way. No matter what. God is good.

And now, my sweet Kipper -- this is for you:

Smile, though your heart is aching
Smile, even though it's breaking
When there are clouds in the sky
You'll get by...

If you smile
Through your fear and sorrow
Smile and maybe tomorrow
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you just smile...

That's the time you must keep on trying
Smile, what's the use of crying
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you just smile